The importance of the handshake
Why has the handshake become so important in today’s society? There are certainly many reasons, but the main one definitely relates to the fact that this custom represents a sort of calling card, able to influence the emotions, sensations and feelings of both individuals.
From this simple action it is already possible, for example, to understand whether the person we have just met has a character which tends towards the decisive or the timid. This is especially useful to know in a professional context, when it is important to do our utmost to get to know and understand the individuals we are dealing with.
The importance of shaking hands depends on the opportunity to analyse our interlocutor through that action: if the handshake is a zealous one, the individual is likely to be cocky, brash and sure of themselves, while if the handshake is limp, it indicates disinterest, a reserved nature or insecurity. Between these two opposites lie many other degrees of handshake, which indicate numerous character traits.
Having said that, it is immediately apparent how easy it can be for anyone to hide their true character, merely by making a slight change to their handshake. This can be advantageous when trying to make a good impression on the boss or on other important individuals, but beware not to try and pretend to be someone you are not, because sooner or later you will be found out.
The best way to shake hands is one which allows a person to identify the positive features of the other’s character: this may be rather timid or over anxious, but if we show that we are calm and relaxed there shouldn’t be any problem. The best thing is to give a medium strength handshake and look the other person in the eyes, while offering a polite smile.
Another fundamental thing to remember is that before holding out our hand we should first make sure it is neither sweaty or wet, nor dirty or greasy. By following this simple but efficient step it should be easier to appear ready for any situation, whether in a professional or private context.
Translated by Joanne Beckwith
